Sometimes…

…it’s more courageous to actually do something about it, than just to stand there, follow the status quo and do nothing. Which is why I came to Hongkong, as uncomfortable as it may seem. Which is why I am alone, though every pore of my being yearns to be with someone. Which is why I […]

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I’m a fan

This woman is so talented that it’s crazy. She learned how to play the piano at the age of four, wrote her first piano ballad at 13, and began performing at open mic nights by the age of 14. Her songs, “Just Dance” and “Poker Face” has reached the top of charts in multiple countries. […]

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Out with the old, in with the new

Broken relationships are like old shoes. You’ve worn them far too often till they are worn and torn. The shine is gone, and the skin are falling off, and yet, you cannot manage to tear yourself away from them. You know that they’re far gone, but they’re just too damn comfortable to throw away. You’ve […]

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Stop. Look. And listen.

I’d like to think that I’m a great mediator. Someone who can easily come in a negatively charged crowd and dissipate the tension. Someone who can get well along with a lot of people. Who can blame me? Past experience showed just how comfortable I am in a sea of people, and my friends come […]

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Rugby Player vs. Tennis Player

For women, are the men you attract classified as rugby or tennis players? For men, for the sake of simplistic generalization, which one are you? My girlfriends and I discussed this topic over dinner last weekend. “Why is it that you’d attract all the rugby players, while I get the boring goody-two-shoes tennis players?” my […]

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Does clothes make the man?

“Clothes make the man,” a famous saying once said. “And it’s true, people judge us from what we wear.” People who know me see that I dress a tad sexier than other women especially in the weekends.   To be honest, a quarter of my life in controlled bondage from a super-conservative upbringing meant that from […]

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Who asks who out?

A friend of mine asked me why women are afraid to ask men out. “If you’re interested, why not do it?” After the hustle and bustle of overtime work, I managed to think further to his question. The truth is, I’ve actually forgotten when I liked a guy so much that I consciously asked him […]

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I miss you.

It’s amazing how you can bring the worst in me, and the best in me. When we first started, I wasn’t really supposed to fall for you. It was nice, and fun and I was attracted to you. But I did. Maybe it was your words of bullshit that turned the tables. Which girl wouldn’t […]

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“Watchmen”

Interesting new movie from DC Comics directed by 300 Zack Snyder was watched by your faithful blogger this evening. The movie features a deconstruction of the superhero genre and used a lot of wordy dialogue that left me more confused than intrigued. Nonetheless, it was a movie that I had to watch as 300 is […]

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One more time?

“So what are you doing this Friday?” he asked. “Am still deciding whether or not I’ll be going to this party,” I replied. “We’ll see.” “Well, if you’re not going to the party,” he continued. “Maybe I can take you out for drinks… and maybe dinner.” “Oh cool,” I answered. “I’m going to be fed!” (in […]

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