3 Sri Lankan Misconceptions Debunked!

I’m back! Okay, I admit it… Sri Lanka was different from what I expected. I went in with a lot of misconceptions that were debunked as early as the first day. In fact, my real draw of Sri Lanka was that it was as messy as India, as historical and archeological as Cambodia and the […]

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On my way to Sri Lanka

I am at the Changi Airport in Singapore as a stopover to Sri Lanka. Earlier this afternoon, had stopped over in the spanking new Hong Kong airport. Oh, I feel exhausted after having travelled to countries at the same time. The ironic thing is, wasn’t even aware of my Singapore stopover until we landed in […]

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Ramblings!

Love makes life complicated. I liked it when I was still single. I just didn’t give a f*ck about anybody else and went on my merry way. Obviously, I savored “me” time and even ate and watched movies in the cinema alone. I was happy. And then he came and swept me off my feet. […]

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Dating: A process and not a marriage end-all/be-all

Did you know that I was completely single for three years before starting to date this man? Hence, contrary to my colorful dating exploits, am still such a baby when it comes to relationships and it shows. However, I’m gradually learning and hoping I can keep my foot steady. What I’ve noticed is that men […]

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Funny…

My boyfriend and I are thinking of meeting up in a random country after two months of not seeing each other. He has a long weekend coming up in a few weeks, and we’ve been racking our brains for the right place to travel to. Our requirements are simple: 1) It had to be someplace […]

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What I Need in a Man

I WANT MORE Attention: I need to know you are present, hopefully in body, but especially in spirit. That means getting rid of the evil blackberry once in a while… Courage and tenacity to last: Nothing about the future is certain except that it will be tough. I need to know I am with someone […]

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Being Carrie Bradshaw

 My friend thinks I’m like Carrie Bradshaw. “I’ve missed you so much,” he exclaimed when I had dinner with him last night. “You just say absolutely anything that comes to your mind and you’re so refreshingly open about it.” My boyfriend is more secretive than I am. You can talk to him for hours and […]

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Stop Caring Too Much

Last night, I met a guy who intrigued the hell out of me. It’s quite rare to see these types anymore — that “devil may care attitude.” Admittedly, I was jealous of his ability to not care what everybody thinks about him. There emanates his confidence, his solid standing and high esteem. People from an […]

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Cursed?

Beauty and sex appeal can be a curse. Back in the Philippines, there was a popular rap song when I was younger. The chorus rang, “Humanap ka ng panget at ibigin mo ng tunay (Find somebody ugly to love and love him/her truly).” The song’s message was, if you ever want happiness, you have to […]

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Top 5 Blehs of Fashion 2008

Personally think that I’m not your typical fashionable chick, but there are some trends that I just can’t help but cringe. Blame it on Lindsay Lohan, the Ashley twins, the grungy Mischa Barton and even Lauren Conrad. One look and you’re like, “Eeeeeew, where did they get that?!” Here’s my top 5 “Bleh” fashion looks […]

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Staying Sane in an LDR

Wow, haven’t I been posting multiple entries about my relationship instead of my usual feel-good, you-go-girl type of posts weeks ago. How fast things have changed, and how this bothers me. “You really like him a lot,” my girlfriend accused. “I’ve never seen you go gaga over a guy since I met you.” This was […]

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Recommends: “Why Men Love Bitches”

I’ve read quite a few I-Need-Help-in-my-Relationship books before, but this one takes the cake. There’s only one chapter that I did not agree in, which was when Sherry instructs women to act like useless females and pretend as if we need a man to be our Superhero. Otherwise, I find her advice to be quite […]

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