Many a woman’s problems can be solved by following one rule: Love only the man who loves you more. Women aren’t really born and bred to chase after a man. In these days of independent powerful women who are used to working hard to get what they want at school and at work, it’s quite […]
I feel terribly sorry for The Nice Guy. Really I do. There they are, pining for their women of their dreams as the latter get swept away by wild bad boys who will inevitably break their hearts into teeny-tiny pieces. The Nice Guys would open the doors for women. Mr. Bad Boy would just trudging forward […]
These days, I am enjoying the far too much the attention of two men. For a person who keeps on asking the readers of her blog if a guy’s interested, it’s a bit of a surprise when I can say with some certainty that a guy IS. The signs are all there — when a guy […]
Today I met someone who I knew would be very good in picking up women. He made an impression on me and for all jilted men out there who thinks that picking up a woman is difficult, this is for you. “Women are just so predictable,” he said. “It’s not that difficult to get someone […]
For women, are the men you attract classified as rugby or tennis players? For men, for the sake of simplistic generalization, which one are you? My girlfriends and I discussed this topic over dinner last weekend. “Why is it that you’d attract all the rugby players, while I get the boring goody-two-shoes tennis players?” my […]
“So what are you doing this Friday?” he asked. “Am still deciding whether or not I’ll be going to this party,” I replied. “We’ll see.” “Well, if you’re not going to the party,” he continued. “Maybe I can take you out for drinks… and maybe dinner.” “Oh cool,” I answered. “I’m going to be fed!” (in […]
After 40 minutes of conversation… Raven: Thank you, you helped me feel a lot better. Friend: Not making you feel better. Because you are a good woman/girl, you deserve someone good, someone special… somehow, something tells me this guy is special. Raven: Aw shucks. Well, he was at Carnegie’s last Saturday. Hope he didn’t pick […]
Dear Successful Date, Congrats on passing the first rigorous days/weeks/months! Reaching this point is truly an achievement and if you think dating is tough, you’re not the only one. Trust me, there are so many guys who manage to screw up dating a wonderful woman because of some avoidable boo-boos. Which is why, after seeing […]
It feels that I hear several voices in my head: “It’s the 21st century. If you’re interested, call and ask him out! You’d never know till you try.” “No—don’t call him. A guy who doesn’t have the balls to ask you out, is NOT worth your time.” “At day end, if a guy doesn’t call, […]
This was a weekend of possibilities, enlightenment, hints of second chances, slight disappointments, and a bout of retail therapy which almost cleared out my bank account. I won’t go into details what happened last Friday, though I can tell you, the restaurant/lounge People at Anhe Road totally rocks. I’ve been there before, but only this […]