My mom: “So Bonita if I were you, I would thank God for taking away Trader. Anyway if he either comes back by himself or by you calling him again, thank God for changing Trader and making him strong enough to be with you.
But now you should be steadfast. Hold your head up with confidence. You should be ready to face Trader if you ever see him again. Don’t ever let him hurt you again. Your future is bright and you are how we brought you up.
A friend: “I think he made a worse choice than day trading by ending it with you…”
Another friend: “Yeah, I think you’ll attract the good ones. Don’t worry…”
Thank you God for giving me the comfort I need when I need it the most. Love love!
Bonita, I’ve been reading your blog for quite some time now and I never left a comment but I just wanted to say that I really enjoy reading your blog since a very long time ago, like woah…back when you were in TW!!! I guess I felt kinda related back then when I just went abroad to study. Back then, you inspired me a lot, something about this independent, strong n positive woman, who’s very passionate about both work/study and life and knows how to enjoy it and keep it all balanced; that i really liked and wanted to be like:)
this breakup really shocked me, because i didnt see it coming:S! but i know for sure that you are still that strong woman, you can get through this and find someone better than the last :D! “Add oil!” 🙂
Btw, your mom always gives the best advice or word of comfort ever:O!
Thank you so so much V. I change between weak and strong these days so forgive me for being too sentimental. Am glad that you can relate. I hope there are more women like us! As you can see though, it’s tough at the moment. I am – on my rare moments – insecure. I am afraid of not finding that love again. I question myself a lot these days. I can’t cook (which means I am not at peace). I cry at random places.
So yes, I am human too. I get hurt, real hurt. But I must be strong. Trader is no longer there to support me. I have to stand by my own. Time can only tell, but oh, how slow time flies!
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As a fellow ambitious, career-oriented female who also harbors similar vulnerabilities re love and men, your posts really resonated with me. Thank you for sharing and for letting me know that I’m not alone in all of this!
All the best!!
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