In Spain with two friends, but before I sleep…

“It’s hard to accept, but you can’t change the past. You can’t go back and manipulate things to the way you wanted them to happen. Because life’d be meaningless and boring and just not worth living. But you can change the future. And that’s a beautiful thing about life. Yes, you will make mistakes. And […]

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Getting Lost, Being Found

Two more days before I get back to London after an almost 2-week journey around Spain alone. I was in Madrid from last week Sunday afternoon to Thursday, Granada over the weekend, and thru the overnight train already in Barcelona till Friday. In a way, it’s a bit frustrating because you couldn’t sample as much […]

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“Please Hear What I’m Not Saying” — Charles C. Finn

In Granada, Spain at the moment, traveling alone for the six days. So far so good but in a reflectory mood. Please be kind and hear what I’m not saying… ~ Bonita ============================ Please Hear What I’m Not Saying  Don’t be fooled by me.Don’t be fooled by the face I wearFor I wear a mask, […]

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Enjoying Spain!

I am in Madrid at the moment, traveling alone for the first time. What’s the difference between traveling alone vs. with someone else? Well, first, you get real paranoid. No offense to the Spaniards but everyone (including my hotel receptionist) has told me there’s tons of pickpockets here that would put those in the Philippines […]

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“Why? Why? Why?”

In the aftermath of a breakup, we tend to ask ourselves repeatedly, “Why?” We look into ourselves for answers. We ask other people. We even at times implore our exes to share what we did to have them lose attraction for us. “Why?” And we drive ourselves nuts as a result. I have driven myself […]

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