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The bus rambles from the background. I hear it from my huge window, covered with a sheer curtain. In her beautiful shoebox, Bonita is lonely. It’s been awhile since I’ve ever felt this — being truly alone. A stranger in an unchartered land with much to discovery and yet fearful of the dangers lying ahead. […]
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Did you know that I was completely single for three years before starting to date this man? Hence, contrary to my colorful dating exploits, am still such a baby when it comes to relationships and it shows. However, I’m gradually learning and hoping I can keep my foot steady. What I’ve noticed is that men […]
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My boyfriend and I are thinking of meeting up in a random country after two months of not seeing each other. He has a long weekend coming up in a few weeks, and we’ve been racking our brains for the right place to travel to. Our requirements are simple: 1) It had to be someplace […]
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I WANT MORE Attention: I need to know you are present, hopefully in body, but especially in spirit. That means getting rid of the evil blackberry once in a while… Courage and tenacity to last: Nothing about the future is certain except that it will be tough. I need to know I am with someone […]
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My friend thinks I’m like Carrie Bradshaw. “I’ve missed you so much,” he exclaimed when I had dinner with him last night. “You just say absolutely anything that comes to your mind and you’re so refreshingly open about it.” My boyfriend is more secretive than I am. You can talk to him for hours and […]
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Beauty and sex appeal can be a curse. Back in the Philippines, there was a popular rap song when I was younger. The chorus rang, “Humanap ka ng panget at ibigin mo ng tunay (Find somebody ugly to love and love him/her truly).” The song’s message was, if you ever want happiness, you have to […]
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Wow, haven’t I been posting multiple entries about my relationship instead of my usual feel-good, you-go-girl type of posts weeks ago. How fast things have changed, and how this bothers me. “You really like him a lot,” my girlfriend accused. “I’ve never seen you go gaga over a guy since I met you.” This was […]
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I’ve read quite a few I-Need-Help-in-my-Relationship books before, but this one takes the cake. There’s only one chapter that I did not agree in, which was when Sherry instructs women to act like useless females and pretend as if we need a man to be our Superhero. Otherwise, I find her advice to be quite […]
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I don’t feel like posting these days. My heart is heavy and my mouth slightly downturned these days. Trepidation. A word that brings dread to one’s heart. It’s like walking out from your building, looking at the dark hazy clouds from a distance and you feel that it’s going to rain. Rain real hard. Intuition. […]
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I love you. I do. My love is the type most people dream about. It’s a love that gives me courage to persist even when situations are bleak, when times are tough and when things are uncertain. Mine is the love that lasts for a lifetime. There are days when I’m in love with you but loving you is a constant. It’s always there. Don’t ask me when I started loving you. I do now and choose you to be its receipient.
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“I’d settle for anyone,” my girlfriend the Actress wistfully moaned. “You’re very lucky Bonita but at least you have choices. It’s just that you don’t want your choices but at least you have SOME.” “Yes, but then again, if you think about it,” I argued. “They’re not choices if they’re not what you want. And […]
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Do you know what women usually talk about when we have our “girl talks?” Sure, we talk about the latest gossip and career plans, but basically, we also like to talk about relationships-who we’re dating, who is interested in us and who are merely in the “just friends” category but he’s nice so I’ll keep […]
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