I Feel the Changes

Five weeks since the breakup. But I will not talk about my breakup. Instead, I will share with you the many internal changes going with myself. Past is past, and the best thing to do in a failed relationship is to realize your own shortcomings and learn from them so you don’t make the same […]

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I Need to be Strong

I am working on a pretty big pet project at the moment. It’s this project that makes me smile and drives me. It will come to play in 2012, and I can’t wait to unveil it in the next few months. 🙂 However, despite the excitement, the project brings a lot of concern and trepidation. […]

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Back in the Dating Scene?

A month after my breakup… wow, how time flies. It hasn’t been an easy journey but oh, how invigorating the process was. Over the last four weeks, I’ve done a lot of self-reflection, making changes where I saw fit. And there were many. My life path for 2012 for example has radically changed from what […]

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Changes, changes, changes!

A few updates on how I’ve been doing so far in lovely London. If you may ask, I am thoroughly blessed even though it doesn’t really seem that way. For one, I am in the company of great friends, and two, if there’s a city to be lonely in and have enough stuff to keep […]

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I am excited of the future…

…as a clue on what and where my future lies, here is a wonderful post that I found on the web by popular career blogger, Penelope Trunk. Enjoy! Make your work more meaningful by Penelope Trunk http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2011/11/15/make-your-work-more-meaningful/ This post is sponsored by the American Cancer Society. Take a look at Steve Martin’s business card. I […]

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I still feel awful BUT…

…to be honest, I’ve had a pretty spectacular week. Let’s see, on Monday, I met a new friend and we ate at Pizza Hut. I met even more new friends when I went to a Moroccan gathering. Ate tons of lamb tangines. 🙂 Then, on Tuesday, watched the Arsenal match and even though the score […]

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My Fears – as written to letters to my mom

Mom: “I don’t see any logic on why he just dumped you and didn’t call because he cares for you. In fact, it should be the opposite. You are alone in London. If he cares, he should at least call.” Bonita: “Logic: He doesn’t love me enough to marry me anymore?” Mom: “Wrong. He is […]

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What people told me today that gave me some level of comfort

My mom: “So Bonita if I were you, I would thank God for taking away Trader. Anyway if he either comes back by himself or by you calling him again, thank God for changing Trader and making him strong enough to be with you. But now you should be steadfast. Hold your head up with […]

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