“It takes awhile before a guy can respect a woman,” my ex said. “Women always seem to demand respect upfront, but the truth is, when a man sees a woman, he predominantly think of only one thing — sex.” “It’s only after some time passes and they’re still around that they start respecting a woman,” […]

Last night, over milk tea, Mark and I were exchanging notes over the past six months we’ve spent in the organization. Over the half year, we have managed to increase membership by over 75%, more than double our funds and have been churning out at least 3 to 5 projects per month. Not bad for […]

Here’s a conversation I had earlier with my friend, James: Raven: I think I lost my power, James. He (Ex #2) has been ignoring me for 2 days straight now. What shall I do? James: Do u want him or do u want your pride? Raven: My pride first. Not pride… respect. James: Then don’t […]

Yesterday, I presented my first ice breaker speech at Toastmasters. Here’s the long-version of my speech (significantly cut it down because it exceeded the required 6 minutes, and you know how strict Toastmasters are when it comes to time) for your reading pleasure. People have asked me why I joined Toastmasters. Mark in particular, scratches […]

I feel great and empowered! I feel like I’m on top of the world! Such change comes from within. I don’t think it’s anything external that has happened recently. Nothing much has changed… But I’ve had this surge of confidence in me that I can’t explain, and finally I know my self-worth. I am truly […]