Me: “My mom has been asking me questions again.”
Trader: “What does she want to know?”
Me: “She wants to know when I will get married.”
Trader: “Oh gosh. Hahahaha actually my parents haven’t been mentioning you anymore.” (Quicknote: Trader’s parents used to vocally HATE me. I was THAT woman. Now, they’ve stopped and begun being amicable.)
Me: “I told her when I’m 38.”
Trader: “Umm… isn’t that a bit too old? Anyway, the mess arrives earlier with Filipino Chinese parents.”
Me: “Hahaha, not old. It’s post baby age. What do you mean when you said mess?”
Trader: “Why did you say, post baby age? Don’t you know I like many kids? There would be a lot of mayhem in the house. These discussions start about the mid-20s.”
Me: “Yeah but backcount please…
– Proposal to wedding: a year
– Honeymoon till start baby making: 1.5 years
– Manufacturing the baby: 9 months
– Rest till next baby: 1.5 years
At my age, it’s tough to get a lot of kids.”
Trader: “Amended timeline:
– Proposal to wedding: 0.5 years
– Honeymoon till start baby making: 0.5 years
– Manufacturing: 9 months
– Rest till next baby: 1 yr
So that’s 3 years to make the 2nd baby…”
***Me thinking: “Does he want to kill me?!”***
Trader: “I guess you’re not that impressed with my timeline?”
Me: “Waw, tight schedule. I don’t want.”
Trader: “Haha, that’s the only way, you’ll see…”
Me: “Target too aggressive. Must revise expectations lower.”
Trader: “Good thing it’s not four kids. I think the target is just fine. :)”
***Long silence***
Trader: “Are you mad?”
Me: “No, just speechless.”
Trader: “Hahahah okay, so moving on…”