I can be really dense sometimes — how do you know if you’ve been on a date?

*scratches head*

Just the two of you in an upper class restaurant with a decent bottle of red wine — check.

Guy leans toward you and ask you questions about yourself. He tells you he finds you “interesting” — check.

He walks with you even though he thinks Taiwan is a dangerous place in slightly uncomfortable weather — check. From my experience, only interested guys are willing to walk with me.

But I don’t know.

I think the test lies on whether he’ll be in contact tomorrow and say something like, “Dear Raven, I had a great time last night….”

And actually ensures you that there will definitely be a next time.

So we shall see what happens. No use in thinking about it too much.

My best friend DC says, “A date is a date when you sense some “vibe” going. if you have no chemistry or spark with the guy, it’s not a date I think.”

We’ll see DC… we’ll see…

But it is indeed nice to be pampered. 🙂

So how about you guys? How do you know if someone is interested in you, and to what extent do you classify a dinner a date?

One thing for sure, I had a nice time. 😀


About Tina

I'm a forgetful person. But I think a lot. Every day, a lot of thoughts enter my head. That's why this blog came to be: first, to keep my memories alive through the years, and two, to actually see how I and my thoughts have changed. Please note that I seldom draft or edit my posts. Sometimes, if I'm not careful, I offend some of you, my readers. And while I apologize for making you feel uncomfortable, I am not sorry for being honest or for making well-intentioned mistakes. I will however be the first to admit if I change my mind. Hence, do read and proceed with caution. My life is as colorful and as boring as you make it. I complain many days, but offer some encouragement in others. Life is fluid, it changes. So keep the positives and throw away the negatives, and I do hope that at the end of the day, you will enjoy reading the blog and leaving comments here and there if my posts touches you. Happy reading!
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